Caretakers For Our Creator!
Angel Femia
On the edge of a cloud
I sit and watch
The world goes by
On the edge of a cliff
A young girl wanders
In awe of the glory
By the shore of the Ocean
An old man walks
In amazement of his life
When I think of the glory
In visions such as this
It makes me question
Why we the Humans
Sent to this earth
To care take for the Creator
I work for understanding
And pray for change
We need to learn
To respect without destruction
Love without rejection
Care without obligation or payment
Be considerate of all
Take responsibility
And be honest with our words
Forgive and grow
Accept all differences
And heal what we have harmed!
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Love Is A Giving Thing!
By Angel Femia
Of LoveCry
Many people feel love has passed them by, or they have simply given up and become angry bitter people. Most believe that
being loved, by other humans, {especially family members} is some kind of Divine Right given to all humans. At the same time,
a belief in the fact that we Love without ever learning how is a right due to Human Birth as well, and no learning is necessary.
Then there is the aspect of this so-called unlearned way of love:
1. That if I love you, you love me and that this is fact just because we exist!
If I love myself and you love yourself this can very well be a true statement, but if I love myself and you hate yourself
the same statement can be just as untrue.
2. I gave you birth so you automatically love me and vice versa!
Again this is only a true statement if I, as the mother loves myself and in turn teaches my child, through example to
love me in return. {The dependency that a child has on the parent or caregiver is in no way love.} If I, the mother, hate
myself, I cannot love my child, thus my child will not be able to love me.
3. The score board love or keeping tabs to measure love!
Many believe that if they do someone a favour, treat a person with kindness or respect, or help a person in some way,
that this is automatically love. This is simply not true. In some cases these deeds are done out of love but in no way are
they love, nor should they be weighed out to show how much a person loves another. {ex: “I did the dishes to show
you I love you!” --- “I bought you a diamond ring, now do you see I love you?” --- “I
gave you birth, of course I love you, and many more”}.
When I look at these types of conditional love, I see that love is very much taken for granted and that we as humans are
looking more for what we can get, how much we have done, or what is owed to us for the doing, as opposed to working towards
the giving aspect, which is truly what love is all about.
Quite a few years ago I met a doctor who woke me up to the truth of the Love situation. I was feeling unloved and I truly
felt I had been cheated. At this time I was very self-centred. I was angry at the entire world because I did not have an easy,
happy life. This doctor asked me a few very important questions to ask myself.
The questions: Why was I expecting to be loved when all I seemed to be doing was living within the anger from the fact
that I felt unloved and how much did I love if I was being self-centred and resentful. He showed me that if I gave love {consider
love being a giving thing} and just put no conditions upon it at all, that I would soon feel and see that love is returned
but not necessarily from the same place it was given to.
Love is a giving thing and what is gotten from this giving should be of no consideration if it is unconditional love or
real love at all. Love is Free of all charge or costs. If I love a person that is incapable of loving me in return, the universe
will see to it that the love I gave will be retuned three fold from other sources, therefore I do not have to worry about
anyone loving me as I already get more love then I ever could give.
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